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    Betrayal and infidelity

    Therapy after betrayal or infidelity

    After an affair, disclosure, or significant breach of trust, people may feel pressure to make immediate decisions while experiencing anger, grief, confusion, shock, or uncertainty. Therapy can provide a structured place to understand what has happened and consider what is needed next.

    What may bring you here

    • Recent disclosure of an affair
    • Ongoing secrecy or broken agreements
    • Loss of trust
    • Repeated boundary violations
    • Questions about what to disclose and when
    • Decisions about the future of the relationship
    • Individual support for either partner
    • Couples work following betrayal

    What therapy can include

    • A steady place to talk about what has happened, at a pace that feels manageable
    • Support for the partner who was hurt and, separately or together, for the partner who acted
    • Considering questions around disclosure with care
    • Understanding the context and history that surround the events
    • Exploring what repair may or may not look like

    Individual, partner, or couples

    • Couples
    • Individual
    • Partners

    Availability

    In-person in downtown Toronto and online across Ontario.

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    Therapists

    Therapists who work with this

    Portrait of Alex St. John, M.A., Registered Psychotherapist

    Alex St. JohnClinical Director

    M.A., Registered Psychotherapist

    A Registered Psychotherapist and Clinical Director working with individuals and couples navigating relationship distress, betrayal, compulsive sexual behaviour, addiction, and recovery.

    Works with

    Couples · Individuals · Partners · Compulsive sexual behaviour · Addiction and recovery

    Offers

    Individual · Couples

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    Portrait of Yvanna Zakrzewski, MPsy, Registered Psychotherapist

    Yvanna Zakrzewski

    MPsy, Registered Psychotherapist

    A Registered Psychotherapist working with couples on relationship distress, betrayal, intimacy, and life transitions.

    Works with

    Couples · Betrayal and infidelity · Compulsive sexual behaviour · Addiction and recovery · 2SLGBTQIA+ affirming care

    Offers

    Couples

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    Questions

    Frequently asked questions

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